RULING YOUR OWN WORLD, INSTEAD OF...

"Unless you thoroughly create a new version of yourself, you will keep operating as the old version. What could be simpler as an idea? I recommend, as your life depends on it, that you create a new, higher version of yourself that is fully reaping all the happiness that is so available to us as humans."

The BuddhaKahuna


Although this is so very basic, few people see that they are continuing to live their old life (their old fears and beleived threats).

In this conversation with Barbara, we address the seemingly uncontrollable feelings (of fear and of rage) and her "conversation" about it. She has now reached a stage where she is ready to alter her conversation - ready in terms of capabilities - but not ready yet to actually choose to "do the work" that is necessary.

In this piece, we cover how we set ourselves up for this and what the problem sequence is and how to solve it and becoming totally no longer a people pleaser.

Read: 9/21/10 Self-creation of "feeling bad","acting bad", and stopping that! (Use the link below and link to this piece just under Intro, on the upper left.)

I hope this ties together much of your training in self-management AND that you make the key and vital decision that will have you controlling your life rather than have circumstances and people rule your world!

Keith

(This piece is under the Barbara Section, Content And Links.)

QUICK IMPLEMENTATION OF THE 80/20 RULE

IC,

As you go into a challenging year of teaching and back into the arena of exhaustion and displeasure, I urge you to consider doing the quick forms in Quick Implementation Of The 80/20 Rule. You cannot afford to pay such a great price AND it is time you had a great year - and this is the opportunity for it!!!!

This will help you to:

1. Get rid of those things most holding you back and causing you unnecessary suffering.

(Note that all suffering is unnecessary as in Suffering And Struggle on the Life Management site.)

2. To spend your time only on highly beneficial activities, freeing up the time from lesser activities.

3. Have lots of free time (believe it or not) and to be sure to keep yourself refreshed and vital.

The quick summary of the rules before starting the forms is worthwhile reprinting here, as these laws (implemented as rules) will change your life so dramatically that you'll be amazed - and very pleased:

Pareto’s Law: 80% of the results come from the top 20% most impactful sources.

Corresponding rule: Only 20% of the results come from the bottom 80% of the sources.

First conclusion: Focus first on the top 20% and do more of them, for more desired results.

Second conclusion: Cut out as much as possible of the lower 80% - and free up life for more high results activities!!!!

Parkinson’s Law: The time taken on something will expand to take the space allotted.

Corresponding law: Don’t allow anything but the appropriate amount of time compared to importance; in fact, try to allow the least possible, as the extra work and details in the lower 80% have very little benefit. (See Law Of Diminishing Returns, which refers to getting less and less out of the extra work or input once we reach a certain point – helps us determine when to stop something.)

Again, I'll guarantee you transformative results if you implement the new choices you'll have!

Keith


Link to Living The 80/20 Life and then to Quick Implementation.