Success leaves clues...
So it pays to find our what a successful person does and then to do something at least close to it.
Here, under Examples Of Philosophies Of Happy People, read The Viewpoints And Affirmations Of A Happy Woman.
I hope you will use this to derive similar types of beliefs (or even copy some of these, as they are very workable).
Keith
Link:
http://www.thelifemanagementalliance.com/Philosophical/Overall/ExamplesPhilHappyPeople.html
Saturday, October 10, 2009
The "Cure" Lies Not In Giant Leaps But In Doing Doable Steps
The conversation that "I have to be more confident and then I'll be happy" has some mistruth in it, but the biggest factor is that confidence (or any desired state) is only attainable through discreet "doables".
"Doables" are actual actions you can take to "get to" some desired result. One cannot "do" the result, one can only do the steps to the result.
When a person says "I have done that before and I haven't achieved the results" that means that they did not find the discreet steps that need to be done to get to the result - that they did something else which sounded similar but was, for sure, incomplete.
An extreme example is "I have tried positive thinking before and it didn't work." The problem is not "positive thinking", but identifying all the steps to implement that state of being and to get the ultimate results that one wants.
As Tony Robbins (and any NLP practitioner) would say: If you can find out exactly what the other person did, you can achieve the results that the other person achieved.
Again, if you did not get the result, it is that you didn't discover and then do the doables.
May you achieve much success in what it takes for you to be truly happy,
Keith
Also, note that one can eliminate alot of pain if one solves the "cause" of a problem and not just the symptoms:
http://happyeffectivelife.blogspot.com/2009/08/eliminating-97-of-pain-in-life.html
Link to The Basis For Using Doables - There Is No Success Without This:
http://www.thelifemanagementalliance.com/LifeMgmt/SuccessRe8d/Doables.html
"Doables" are actual actions you can take to "get to" some desired result. One cannot "do" the result, one can only do the steps to the result.
When a person says "I have done that before and I haven't achieved the results" that means that they did not find the discreet steps that need to be done to get to the result - that they did something else which sounded similar but was, for sure, incomplete.
An extreme example is "I have tried positive thinking before and it didn't work." The problem is not "positive thinking", but identifying all the steps to implement that state of being and to get the ultimate results that one wants.
As Tony Robbins (and any NLP practitioner) would say: If you can find out exactly what the other person did, you can achieve the results that the other person achieved.
Again, if you did not get the result, it is that you didn't discover and then do the doables.
May you achieve much success in what it takes for you to be truly happy,
Keith
Also, note that one can eliminate alot of pain if one solves the "cause" of a problem and not just the symptoms:
http://happyeffectivelife.blogspot.com/2009/08/eliminating-97-of-pain-in-life.html
Link to The Basis For Using Doables - There Is No Success Without This:
http://www.thelifemanagementalliance.com/LifeMgmt/SuccessRe8d/Doables.html
Friday, October 9, 2009
The Thinking Of A Happy Person - As A Model
One of the happiest people I know did me the favor of sharing with me an "affirmations" writing she did a few years back.
I can see why she is so happy with a viewpoint and philosophy like that.
You may enjoy reading The Viewpoints And Affirmations Of A Happy Woman. You can link to the page it is on by clicking on the link below. The page is called Examples Of Philosophies Of Happy People.
It is easier to formulate good affirmations, statements, and declarations (all part of the Affirming/Empowering part of the Psychology section) from already written examples, picking and choosing and adapting them to what fits you .
An excellent, powerful philosophy will totally transform one's life and happiness. I recommend that you complete one for yourself, as it will save you alot of "misfires" and unnecessary unhappiness.
Keith
Links:
Examples Of The Philosophies Of Happy People:
http://www.thelifemanagementalliance.com/Philosophical/Overall/ExamplesPhilHappyPeople.html
Empowering Self-Conversations:
http://www.thelifemanagementalliance.com/SiteMapIBIAffEm.html
Philosophy Of Life:
http://www.thelifemanagementalliance.com/SiteMapICPhilos.html
I can see why she is so happy with a viewpoint and philosophy like that.
You may enjoy reading The Viewpoints And Affirmations Of A Happy Woman. You can link to the page it is on by clicking on the link below. The page is called Examples Of Philosophies Of Happy People.
It is easier to formulate good affirmations, statements, and declarations (all part of the Affirming/Empowering part of the Psychology section) from already written examples, picking and choosing and adapting them to what fits you .
An excellent, powerful philosophy will totally transform one's life and happiness. I recommend that you complete one for yourself, as it will save you alot of "misfires" and unnecessary unhappiness.
Keith
Links:
Examples Of The Philosophies Of Happy People:
http://www.thelifemanagementalliance.com/Philosophical/Overall/ExamplesPhilHappyPeople.html
Empowering Self-Conversations:
http://www.thelifemanagementalliance.com/SiteMapIBIAffEm.html
Philosophy Of Life:
http://www.thelifemanagementalliance.com/SiteMapICPhilos.html
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