Wednesday, December 16, 2020

Gain empathy, first, before communicating or trying to persuade...

 The following is an email sent to a friend who was trying to convince his mother not to be afraid of doing "personal development work".  He noted that "she just has barriers and is so unenlightened".  While it is true that both sides of a communication are 100% responsible, one only controls one's own side of that and should not stop at the other person not doing his/her (expected) part.

"When we have so much at stake (at least in our minds), we tend not to communicate to, or persuade, others well, as there is a "wall" of lack of understanding and empathy...  Fixing that is the first thing to do to be adequately prepared for successfully communicating...


"We tend to deal with other people, and indeed even try to persuade them, without actually taking the time to fully understand them and to be able to have compassion with them.  We don’t take the time to go deeper, which would enable us to have a better “connection” with them and to communicate much, much more deeply and successfully."   

“PUTTING ON SOMEONE ELSE’S HEAD”

GAINING EMPATHY AND GREATER UNDERSTANDING"


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Keith D. Garrick

Of The Life Management Alliance

(A pay-it-forward, never-a-cost endeavor to dramatically improve people’s lives)


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Saturday, December 5, 2020

YOU MUST BUILD AN ENERGIZING SYSTEM INTO YOUR DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A concept is worth nothing if one doesn't assure that the results are harvested from it!

Here's a way to harvest the idea that we should run our energy system much better in life. 

Everyone should, at least, assure that they do this energizing practice AND that there is a system built into the day to remind them to do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Failing to do this would not be smart!!!!

Try this:  Building Energy Into Your Day

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 Keith D. Garrick

Of The Life Management Alliance

(A pay-it-forward, never-a-cost endeavor to dramatically improve people’s lives)


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Monday, November 30, 2020

How To Grow To Live As Your Highest Self

In one page (with links to complete the processes), the necessary steps that will transform your ability to be and live as your highest self - for the happiest possible and greatest life!

 How To Grow To Live As Your Highest Self.

Of course, this relates to the piece: The One Decision That Will Dramatically Determine and Transform Your Life.