Unrealistic expectations in relationships...

"Our current relationship difficulties also stem from a cultural source – which we call ‘Romanticism’. We’ve collectively given ourselves a deeply problematic Romantic picture of what good relationships should be like: we dream of profound intimacy, satisfying sex, an absence of secrets and only a modicum of conflict. This faith in love is touching, but it carries with it a tragic flaw: having high expectations can turn out to be an enemy of workable mature relationships."

Interesting quote from:  The School Of Life 

See The Effects Of Expectations In Life And Relationships.   Learn realistically about Relationships, and Making Love , for we go through life guessing and reading minds (moans?) and then assuming and then repeating what doesn't work.