(If you receive this by email, click on the title to see the rest of the post. If you find yourself wanting to follow the whole trail on some subjects, then write them down on a to do list, and, if possible, actually tickle their start dates in the calendar. Ongoing successful people have a regular tickle list to remind one to draw from a list of "next" subjects to study or do.)
I can listen to a person's conversation and I can quickly pick up their viewpoint about life, whether it is "victim" or "highly responsible".
Of course, one can also tell by one's results in life - as they are the "evidence."
The funny thing, though, is that success in life is not at all due to intelligence level nor due very much to skill education level. It is almost entirely due to one's responsibility level. (Learn the exact, actual definition, devoid of cultural misuses.)
And many people do not actually see how much the victim/dependent/getapproval viewpoint shows up in their lives.
I recommend that you do these readings, as if your life depended on it - as it does, if you see where you are not being responsible and where you could be and then you do the learning to see what it takes.
Your life will literally transform, but not as a byproduct of anything else or of circumstances but of the fact that you switched to what it takes to transform it yourself, from your own power.
Read these 25+ pieces (and a few links from them) and you'll be ahead of 99% of the people in this world on this vital subject: Responsibility, Victimhood, And Power In Life, Contents, Links.
Read the reading list and implement the "power" creators and I guarantee your life will be substantially better in a relatively short period. (I know this requires some "homework", but the value you will get out of it will be priceless. And you might suspect that I am "into results", not just pleasing little blog posts that end up with no real value.)
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