Judging, “morality”, time and energy wasted - and ultimately self harm

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We developed “shortcuts” that served us 50,000 years ago, but do us damage now.  We “judged” in order to protect ourselves against the extreme dangers of not surviving.

Though those dangers do not still exist, we still use the same old system - and it has us making wrong choices, judging others when understanding is more appropriate, and, worst of all, by a magnitude of 1000, is “judging” ourselves, unthinkingly, unsmartly, and with great emotional and life harm.

There is no valid basis for “faulting” another OR ourselves.  We demoralize ourselves, bring ourselves down, whenever we criticize ourselves, even if we think it is “doing us good to chastise ourselves.”  As a main part of our learning to make life better, each person should read and
understand the reasoning behind No Fault - which will relieve, and stop,  a huge percentage of your negative feelings.

What we do to others, also harming ourselves, is let our “righteous mind” govern our interactions with and judgments of others.  I like this article, annotated by me in Evernote, Why The Other Side Won’t Listen To Reason.   And, I write about this on the site:  The Righteous Mind Vs. The Thinking Mind - And The Effect Of  Harmful Ignorance.

Read all of these, please, as this is one of the biggest determinants of unhappiness and emotional damage in your life - you cannot afford to let it continue if you want to have a good/great life!!!!!

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