How do we accelerate having a great life, speeding up the process so we can enjoy it longer and stop any non-success from continuing?
The "secret" is no secret. It is mostly just dismissed, perhaps with superficial espousing or acknowledging how smart it is, but not really applying it in life.
Here are my comments and suggestions related to this - and the argument for doing the acceleration right now.
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BE SHOWN THE WAY
The essence of Joseph Campbell’s Hero’s Journey: You cannot succeed without someone wiser to show you the way.
How this shows up is in having someone (or a reliable organization) teach you the rules of the game and how to improve your chances of "success".
Of course, it will take hard work.
"You can’t just work harder. You have to work smarter. Stop trying to manage your time, as my friend Rory Vaden says, and instead learn how to multiply it. Finding the right guides to help you is an integral part of that process." Jeff Goins
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BUT HOW FAST?
One little "secret" lies in using a super-focused, intensive retreat workshop where you don't spend months and years to make a little progress maybe every week but instead you collapse all that time into one set limited period.
Of course, this workshop has to be with the proven (successful) experts and in proven programs.
And, again, of course, this will cost you money. The value you will get will include lots of saved time, a better competence, and achieving success much more quickly. The latter is worth noting, but the truth also is that without that intense workshop and your following up on it you probably would never get to the point of true success - of achieving what you want.
An example of an approach to take would be to does the one week intensive, 8 helpers to one participant, proven-to-work program at the Hoffman Institute. It will direct your efforts and intensify your progress in cleaning up the core cause of your very life: your beliefs.
No person, from all of my studies, should allow unworkable and/or harmful beliefs to continue to cause problems, negative emotions, not getting desired results, not being happy with and in life in any way.
Why on earth would one want to keep that which doesn't work?
Beats me.
But people do.
However, this should not be tolerated in life. The worth of cleaning up ALL of your beliefs in true value to life is priceless, yet it is interesting to see that people who can afford it will not spend the money to do it.
REWRITING "THE BOOK"
A rewrite of a famous book might,instead, start off like this:
"In the beginning there was a clean slate that was attached to a miraculously performing brain. Then some good stuff and too much bad stuff was poured into it. Those things were given the name 'beliefs' - kind of the "rules" in our lives of what to do to get a result. Once we grew from the state of little knowledge and little logic, we started to notice that some things we did did not produce the result we want - and they pretty much caused us to feel bad."
Some people said "Oh, how terrible. My life isn't working. I'm so stupid." They formed up into a tribe which was called The Victims, who needed others to provide better results for them and who relied on that unreliable source to make them happy. They had hope, though not often true competence or success in living life itself. They depended on others, based on their own agendas and wants, to cause and generate their lives. They took the position of being "generated upon", mostly with leftovers fitting in the cracks of other people's lives.
Some people said "Oh, that belief/rule did not get me what I wanted. Well, I want good results in my life, so it seems to make sense to revise those beliefs to what is truly workable." They became The Generators, who generated and made sure their own lives worked to get the results they truly wanted in life.
They even decided what it was that they wanted and added that up into a written manifesto of what success in life was composed of. (Start from Life Value - The Worth Of Your Life Is....)
They set a hard and fast rule: "If something is broken, fix it. (Duh!) Leave no problem unsolved or uncorrected. Leave no belief that continues to produce undesired results uncorrected! I am the one who creates my life and I will not tolerate that which does not work staying in my life for a moment longer!"
Those who leave problems unfixed are always in a fix (a problem created again because the underlying cause was not corrected!!!). They are so busy fixing the symptoms of the problems that they think that they no longer have the time to even solve the problems. Bless the meek, for they shall inherit what is left over by chance after The Generators and The Proactives have already harvested all they need and are not dependent on the leavings of others. (See A Person With Internal Reference Is Happier Than An External Reference Person.)
Those who, ASAP, solve problems (including the cause in terms of beliefs) have no problems, as they have cured them all. They are freed up to truly create more and greater results (and happiness) in life - far outdistancing by more than 10x what others do - living a truly great life that will absolutely occur because they are making sure that it does.
We only get this one life, so doesn't it seem like it would be essential to fill it on purpose as expeditiously as possible with all the wonderful results and personal successes we can rather than leave it up to chance (or to others or to circumstances...)??????!!!!!!!!!
Insure that you do, by using this "secret", in general, but, for sure, on making sure your beliefs are up to date, matching reality, and working for your greatest benefit! (See Changing Beliefs, but consider doing it the fast, intensive, make it work for sure way, as discussed above.)
OK, NOW WHAT DO I DO?
"There are so many links and things to learn just in this one piece, so I might just skip it because it seems so hard..."
1. Do your "success manifesto" of what a successful life would be for you. Consider the content in Life Value - The Worth Of Your Life Is....
2. Clean up your beliefs first and well. Use the intensive suggested if possible. Or do your studying of the links from the Beliefs section. Don't stop until you've "completed" your correction of your beliefs (the critical ones anyway, such as your Core Beliefs plus 10 major other beliefs at least).
3. Don't dawdle. Don't switch to other projects. Don't let anythnig else in until you have finished this first priority, gateway to life set up of corrected beliefs!!! Don't stop in the middle, or do lots of stops and starts, as you'll lose track and lose vital momentum! (Decide if you want to be Living Life As A Life Champion.)
Yes, this will take time, but the value for your time is priceless!
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A summary perspective, linking to many specifics, is in Living Life As A Life Champion - which is not a piece to be passed over with a glance or just a reading of it. It should be implemented so that you are actually living that life!!!!!
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OK, NOW WHAT DO I DO?
"There are so many links and things to learn just in this one piece, so I might just skip it because it seems so hard..."
1. Do your "success manifesto" of what a successful life would be for you. Consider the content in Life Value - The Worth Of Your Life Is....
2. Clean up your beliefs first and well. Use the intensive suggested if possible. Or do your studying of the links from the Beliefs section. Don't stop until you've "completed" your correction of your beliefs (the critical ones anyway, such as your Core Beliefs plus 10 major other beliefs at least).
3. Don't dawdle. Don't switch to other projects. Don't let anythnig else in until you have finished this first priority, gateway to life set up of corrected beliefs!!! Don't stop in the middle, or do lots of stops and starts, as you'll lose track and lose vital momentum! (Decide if you want to be Living Life As A Life Champion.)
Yes, this will take time, but the value for your time is priceless!
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A summary perspective, linking to many specifics, is in Living Life As A Life Champion - which is not a piece to be passed over with a glance or just a reading of it. It should be implemented so that you are actually living that life!!!!!
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