The two necessary things to ensure a great life

I was asked by a person who is conscientious and very capable what had caused her (and her husband) to still be stuck with "these problems" so late in life.

I answered "stopping short".

But that answer was a bit short of a good explanation, while it was true in and of itself.

The problem lay in not doing the following 2 necessary things to have a great life (and nobody told them about these nor taught them to do them).


THE TWO NECESSARY THINGS ARE:

The 2 necessary things to have and for sure create a great life are:

1.  Living life by the standard of only doing that which is of high "impact relevance".

They do not allow anything else into their lives, for they refuse to give away their life for things of very little life value.

2.  Living life by the standard (and the "stand") of not tolerating at all any bad impact items remaining in their lives.

They "see" and immediately fix anything that is getting in the way of getting good impacts (results), especially that which is directly causing bad impacts.  They do not tolerate leaving them around to cause life damage for even a moment!   (When they follow these they will assure that they will be Living Life As A Life Happiness Champion, With The Vital Skills And Practices To Live A Great Life.)


THIS INCLUDES PROACTIVELY GOING ONE STEP DEEPER

Part of living by the standard in #2 above is actually not waiting for a problem to occur but anticipating that which one will need to do to not have the bad impacts happen.  Those likely impacts are, indeed, mostly predictable.

Fears, anxieties, costly mistakes from "not knowing", poor decision-making, having no standards for screening life and people, etc. and etc. are all anticipatable causes of anticipatable problems.

To avoid these bad impacts, they find that they need to learn ahead of time, in each important area, how things work and how to work them to the point of "sufficiency" for getting good results.  (The most important is how to operate the basic machinery one is given, especially How The Mind Works, and also How Life Works.  Then the next core thing to learn to do is to manage the most important determinant of life:  one's beliefs.  Leaving one's harmful beliefs intact is one of the very biggest, and perhaps the biggest, mistakes a person can make in life, for they are the basis for creating and experiencing life!)

And, yes, it is difficult for people to "see ahead" and then see that their time upfront learning how things work and how to work them is massively well worth it in terms of long term life value.


THE GUARANTEE

But if you follow these two standards for living your life, I guarantee that you will live a great life, for doing what I advocate here is indeed "the way" for people to create great life competency and thus the ability to create what they truly want in life, including great, great confidence in oneself - which is, in itself, priceless, not to even mention that priceless result it will cause in life.

So...

Will you choose to embrace those 2 standards and to do what is necessary to use them to run (and determine) your life?

(You might start with The Build, as part of The Only Sure Path To The Greatest Life.  It would immensely helpful for to, asap, Find The Time to do this. )